Why "Sorry No Cure"?

Why do people have to say "Sorry no Cure?"

The existing of this powerful word,and yet people are saying it as "Sorry no Cure?"
Yes it might be quite true when it comes to crime or murder,and with that even an individual is Sorry,and yet justice to be received.

I personally think that it's just 2 ways of thinking,either an individual is not satisfy with the apology or he/she is seeking for something "better" than an apology.Forgiving and Receiving are different.Something that has been done may not be forgiven,but by saying "Sorry no Cure" is totally unacceptable and you're trying to make the word Sorry,worthless.

If you think that you're a perfect person that would not need to apologize to any single person at all which means you'll get everything right, then try to use that.But try to feel how it feels when you're truly sorry to someone in the future and you get the reply "Sorry no Cure"

Marketing Concepts

A Professor explaining marketing concepts to Students:

1. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say: "I am very rich. "Marry me!" - That's Direct Marketing"

2. You're at a party with a bunch of friends and see a gorgeous girl. One of your friends goes up to her and pointing at you says: "He's very rich. "Marry him." -That's Advertising"

3. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and get her telephone number. The next day, you call and say: "Hi, I'm very rich. "Marry me - That's Telemarketing"

4. You're at a party and see gorgeous girl. You get up and straighten your tie, you walk up to her and pour her a drink, you open the door (of the car) for her, pick up her bag after she drops it, offer her ride and then say: "By the way, I'm rich. Will you "Marry Me?" - That's Public Relations

5. You're at a party and see gorgeous girl. She walks up to you and says:"You are very rich! "Can you marry ! me?" - That's Brand Recognition

6. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say: "I am very rich. Marry me!" She gives you a nice hard slap on your face. - "That's Customer Feedback"

7. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say: "I am very rich. Marry me!" And she introduces you to her husband. - "That's demand and supply gap"

8. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and before you say anything, another person come and tell her: "I'm rich. Will you marry me?" and she
goes with him - "That's competition eating into your market share"

9. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and before you say: "I'm rich, Marry me!" your wife arrives. - "That's restriction for entering new markets"

It's just a Dream

Live a life with the passion of love,
She tells you that she loves you the most,everyday.
A great smile a day,a hug which is filled with love,love that could give you everything.
Shares her heaven and hell,with you.
The feeling that tells you,she'll be yours forever.
A dream could tell everything is in heaven but not when you're like a trolley.

"The key, The chest"

If two people are meant to be
that surely is you and me.
And no matter how far we are
you'll always be in my heart.
I will never love you less than I do now
but I will love you deeper somehow.

The "Deep" In Heart

Back to College!

Urgh, going back to college tomorrow,is it suppose to be great?
Nah,why should we start with the John Lee tomorrow?Whenever I think of him,it reminds me of sleep so much!I'm not trying to say he's boring,but I don't think that I'm really interested in microeconomics! It's damn boring!I think I'm starting to get lazy,that's why my blog is dying.

Donuts anyone?




Yummy,nice donuts there!special thanks to someone who bought these donuts!!and a "someone" who keep wanting to eat DONUTS!And, "Wei I guess you'll drool after looking at it o hehe...."













Whatever with the past has gone,
The best is always yet to come.
Some people walk in the rain,others just get wet,
Never look at happiness only through another's eyes.
Wishing you happy always is one of my wish.

It's Ordinary

The 3rd day (Mid-term Examination)

I've used to it,last minute study,I made my preparation an hour before the exams!It was kinda rushing.Me and my friends went into the hall and I was like,"Dammit! How am I going to do the paper?".After doing some calculation for an hour,people start walking out.I was nervous about how am I going to finish to get myself out as soon as possible.Few minutes later,Fuji sent me a sms and I forget to silence my phone..I sounded like "You and me.......from one world" and everyone turned over and look at me.I tossed my phone on the ground as soon as possible to avoid the worst situation.One of the instructor came to me and said,"Pick up your phone,*I did*..Switch off your phone" and ..he is gone" Phew!It was a tiring day.I was laying on my bed from 7 .30p.m. and when I woke up I realized it was 12.45a.m.

What a day

The first day (Mid-term examination)

No revision done except I copied the 4 elements of MBO (Management by Objective) for 5 times.Yes I did copied the same thing for 5 times and it works.Thank god I still manage to write something out there better than I've expected.Last minute study is never beneficial.Argh,how can I study daily when there's no examination?I'm just too lazy to do that.While we were in the examination hall,after 30 minutes,there was an announcement."Candidate musn't leave the hall before 3.05 and after 3.45".When it was 3.05, I was in a hurry (Badminton session) Haha oh my god,I didn't even concern about the exam!We went for badminton session along with Vinnie,yeah the only lady in the court and everything ended up to be quite not-bad.Well I wasn't a good player for today but atleast I had a lot of fun except the injury part!

It's Essential

18/9 Penang Chief Minister Lim Guan Eng launches Penang Free Wifi, making it the first state to have free state-wide Internet access/ STAR

What was my first response?Was having my wonderful lunch in a Taiwan Restaurant with my 3 lovely friends.*Of course,aqua stuff makes Andrew go "heh-heh" ! walking around and enjoying aqua stuffs*.Suddenly Mr.Fuji showed me this "18/9 Penang Chief Minister Lim Guan Eng launches Penang Free Wifi, making it the first state to have free state-wide Internet access/ STAR" and I was shocked and stunned(Even the technology had exist,but it's never too late for our Chief Minister to do something for his state and Penangites !)
It might be something*not-new*,but it's a "blatant essential plan"
Cheers to all !

The Romance

The Lollipop
A special "Sweet"tasted candy.
The Candle
"Lighten" you up in the dark.
The Moon
Your "Direction" when you are lost.
The Game
Never a "Relationship"
The Relationship
Just "Us"
The Day
When you and me become "We"
"Love"
The only true special feeling between "You" and "Me"
"You"
The one and only in my "Life"

Dedicated by Sylvester
With Love

The world is never enough.

Urgh,getting better..had a nap from 3 to 7 plus ,I've been through nightmare and sweet dreams :)

And .. "Money no enough 2"?
It's just another "same-patterned" movie again.
Started with criticising and ended with some touching-kind.
And there are a few messages to be sent from that movie such as
the world today that they'd already started to forget about their elders and so on.
And the one that could not be missed ,the ERP system..we could see animated citizens vanishing the ERP thingy and stuffs.
Well,to me it's just "another-movie",and it can be quite touching or interesting without any "self-mentally-brain-washed".
If it's about judging,I'll still have a long way to go :)

Happy Mooncake Festival !

Happy Mooncake Festival to all my lovely friends!

It seems like everyone is having their sweet moment celebrating "Mooncake Festival".
And guess what?
I'm sick again!
Nothing much for today except the sick part and I just realized that mooncake isn't that nice anymore *Maybe it's the matter of brand*

Phases Of The Moon

As Sorrow often sits with Sadness, Challenged in what truths they hold. Inherently relying on a touch of madness- Lying in stories left untold. So sit I with the tranquil viewing- Of a starlit sky in June. With all the peace of a werewolf misconstruing- The phases of the moon. The stars seem to shine before me- Like lovers in line for a dance. But it's ultimately that lunacy- That spells for me romance. And I cast my gaze upon her face, Beaming ever-white and full. Smiling, knowing, long as she's glowing, Life never will be dull. I'll wake the morrow well appeased, And wink up at the sky. Knowing my love, in fullness, though be pleased, Won't be half as full as I.

by Michael Anderson

It's "Him" again!

Nothing much for today except..
Me and Jason taking a bus back..another step into the bus,Jason received a phone call and he drag me away.
Me :Why?
Jason :My dad is coming to pick us up.
Me :Okay great

We were waiting,waiting there*carrying a heavy bag*
Me :Jason I cannot take it already, my bag is heavy.
Jason :Put down your bag Lah
Me :Ignores Jason

15 minutes later.
Jason received a phone call.It sounded like *Oh,Aiyah I'm in Butterworth Bus Station..Har?No I'm not in Penang now*

*Jason's dad called and we were told that he was in the wrong Ferry Terminal!*

Jason dragged me and we get a bus.

It's JASON AGAIN!

Why L adies today are still single?

I found this interesting from a friend,

Why L adies today are still single?

1. The nice men are ugly.

2. The handsome men are not nice.

3. The handsome and nice men are gay.

4. The handsome, nice and heterosexual men are married.

5. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men, have No money.

6. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men with money think we are only after their money.

7. The handsome men without money are after our money.

8. The handsome men with money, but not loyal which might sleep with you tonight and dump you on the next morning.(Added by me :D )

9. The handsome men, who are not so nice and somewhat heterosexual, don't think we are beautiful enough.

10. The men who think we are beautiful, that are heterosexual, somewhat nice and have money, are cowards.

11. The men who are somewhat handsome, somewhat nice and have some money and thank God are heterosexual, are shy and NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!!!!

12. The men who never make the first move, automatically lose interest in us when we take the initiative.

Thanks to the person who found this interesting piece of thing :D

It's like never

Why am I saying this?
My internet connection has been down for almost the whole day until the sun sets.
I've contact "TmNet" technical department at 8.45a.m. and what did they asked me to do?
"Hello Mr,please connect your this that this that and this and that".
I told him that my connection was fine last night and there's no changes done except the connection!
At 5p.m.,I make the call again."Have you try out the direct connection?"
Why why why?They like direct connection so much?Come on man,can you guys please be more efficient?
"I've received news from our technical department that connection in your area is currently down,please try again tomorrow morning ... or maybe afternoon,thank you"
What the?Come on man,are you guys getting free-pay?
Yeah finally,I tried again on 6.30p.m. and it works.

Tears ; Blood

What will be in your mind,if you realize that you have lost yourself?

She came to me in my dreams,
Staring with her pitiful,painful,pathetic,bloody eyes.
I can feel the pain in you,
I was told that you are not one and only of them.


Differ what is right and what is wrong.
Do not let your purpose,kill your substance
Love yourself while you can,
After you've lost your mind,
There's no turning back.
Any errors found,please forgive me.

Sad for a "Friend"

Haha,what to say right here?
Oh yeah,there's a person called ShMay a.k.a Ky0

I have been told by her that she was drunk.
How? "3 Cokes"
Wow since when coke contains alcohol?
I don't even know that,still seeking for explanation.
*To those who're able to explain,please approach me=)*

Calling me an "AssHole?"
Look at yourself first :)

ShMay:YOU ASS HOLE YOU LANSI LANYONG LA
Syl :You're the first person in the world who call me LansiLanyong
ShMay: Shutup lar you ass
Syl :What is the theory?Coke could make you drunk?
ShMay :YOU ASS HOLE LAR YOU FAIL ENGLISH LAR!
Syl :Why fail english?
ShMay :Because you don't understand me lar ass hole!
Syl :Oh you drink coke again ah?
ShMay :YOU ASS LAR I DIDN'T TAKE COKE TODAY LAR
Syl :Then why?You said I fail my English?
ShMay :YOU ASSHOLE LAR YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND ME!
ShMay :YOU NEVER PAY ATTENTION IN ENGLISH CLASS THAT'S WHY YOU FAIL
Syl :*I was like,Shit,since when we went for English class together?And I don't re-call I fail my English* WHAT THE?Can you talk about some sense?
ShMay :YOU FAIL MORAL LA
-Demmi Appears to be offline,ShMay was the user"

I feel that I'm so stupid to bother with such problematic person.

Things change in our life.
Personalities will never change with no purpose.
Die with honour.
But never live with such "Disgrace"

Not my day.

The 10 unlucky moments !


Got myself up at 7,reach Jason's house at 8.
We went off at 8.30,traffic jam ! And we reached at 9.25.
Car Park was fully occupied,we went in and out from the other way.
It was blocked by 2 chairs,me and Jason went down to arrange the chairs.
Uncle-Car-Park came and scold us,"#$%^&*&^%$#$%^&*",I was silenced,walk away.


Went into Mr John Lee's microeconomics class.
Mr John Lee : Hello are you in the right class?
Me : Yes ,I'm
Mr John Lee : Why can't you be punctual?
Me : Car broke down*Well,I lied*
Mr John Lee : I don't want any excuses and I don't care
Me : Silenced,walk away.


Mr John Lee :Hey 4 of you behind there,can you all please move to the other side?How many times I have already told you guys,don't sit at the back !
4 of us : Okay,*move to the other side*

Mr John Lee :Hey what is your name over there?Can you please leave your phone alone?*Luckily it wasn't me,it was Mr Andrew*
Mr John Lee :What is free market?
Andrew :Errr...
Mr John Lee :Hey you! What is your name?*OMG It's my turn*
Me :Er......
Mr John Lee : You guys never pay attention,that's why.

Here's again!
Mr John Lee : Hey you,why the right side of the graph is more and the left side is less?
Me : err to balance?*It comes up to my mind,resources or balance?"
Mr John Lee : NO! it's the limit of the resources
*Oh damn it,I'm doomed!*

*Attendance taken,without calling my name*
Approach Mr John Lee,Hey sir,why you didn't call my name?
Mr John Lee:Your name is under group B,I'll see you on Thursday.
Me :But I just attended your class!
Mr John Lee:No I don't care,your name is under group B!

Holy!..Now we're in Introduction to Business Communications!
The lecturer is Richard.
Richard:You guys have missed 3 classes and there will be replacement classes.How many of you can come on Thursday night? 6-9pm?
Crowd:CANNOT CANNOT,WHY NIGHT?I GOT CLASS?
Richard:How about Monday 3-6?
Me:NONONONO Monday cannot!Thursday Thursday!
An Unknown Lady:HEY YOU,I GOT CLASS ON THURSDAY,you understand or not?Hey you understand?
Me: Stunned! You can always request right?You have your choice!

Another one..Mr Richard wants us to introduce ourself ,"If you are from Penang,please tell me which school you from,if you are from other state,then it's ok"
When it comes to me..
Mr Richard:Where you from?
Me:Er..I from Selangor*Well I lied*
Mr Richard:OH which part of Selangor,I from Selangor too
Me:*Oh god..How?* Er..I forget already
Mr Richard:Har?What do you mean by you forget?
Me:Oh I'm from Shah Alam
Mr Richard:OH Shah Alam

Class ended at 5.45
Waiting for Jason's sister to pick us back.
Was told to be at the Foyer at 6.
We called at 6.45.
Er,she'll pick us at 8.
Library closed,thunder storm raining!
Freezing!

Went to Old Town Kopitiam,
Sitting there around with friend's friends and I was bored!
I don't know what to do there.
Sitting there , sleepy.
Was there from 8.45 to 10.30
Well,I'm home at 11.05

Seems like today is not my day!

Presentation !

Before the presentation,
A "me" with pathetic ugly hair!*I know I'm vain* ,Mr Andrew drove us to the salon.
Okay,the question I hate the most,"What kind of hair style you want?"and the worst answer,"I don't know,you decide"Hey it's so stupid.

Before the presentation,the first step into the theater
SyN @ May Yong :Wah you look like an uncle!
SyL :Wah you look like an auntie!

Omg! The funny feeling! "Hey, it's a pathetic welcome"
Sitting at the back,playing around*Yeah because I was nervous!*
Finally,after an hour,it's our turn!
We took our seat and here...we...go!
I feel relaxing after my speech,time to take some rest there.
Here comes the Q&A part!Stupid Jay Velu and Jason Beh,two stupid J's! asked a question
"Does politics causes war?"
Mr Andrew(Leader) : er..
Me *I want to answer!* :What do you mean by politics?What kind of politics do you mean?
Jason Beh : politics Lah,like politics
Me: Oh,you mean the opposition side or the government?*I was stupid and panic that time*
Jason Beh : Politics lah !
Some Unknown Senior : Hey,he's asking you a question you don't understand?
Me : Hey,I don't even know what he is saying.
Some Unknown Senior : He said does politics causes war?
Jason : yah like they have different ideas,they will cause war?
Me : If they have different ideas,they'll solve it out in the parliament,YOU dont have to worry!
Some Unknown Senior :Hey,what is war then?
Me :War is*panic* err..
Mr Andrew :War ensures peace
Some Unknown Senior :Then why is still war?
Me:As Miss Beh had stated,violence couldn't solve anything.
Some Unknown Senior :How can you assure that?
Me: You try to hit someone and see how are you going to escape?
Some Unknown Senior :Yeah"voice from loud to soft" I escape before , once
Me: Then you can try it again.
*Miss Goh shows some sign."end it end it"*

Our Group:Okay that's all for today,thank you very much,thank you all.

"So-called Senior,I've left him a pride as a Senior or I'll address him something more terrifying."

Hell! I shouldn't be panic,that's what I always be.
Anyway it wasn't that bad after all,Maybe..

Merdeka Merdeka Merdeka!

It's the 31st of August 2008 ! Which is Malaysia's 51st Birthday.
How was it?I don't see much "Jalur Gemilang" around the street and it's not as overwhelmed as the By-Election for the P44 Parliament seat.But what we've used to heard,"Hey,how about clubbing on the Merdeka's night?" It's quite right to say it that way but not "Hey,Merdeka! Lets go to some clubs and celebrate!".Hey,the purpose to be there is not really about celebrating the National Day.Don't mention that a "night club" would put National Flags around with National Anthem?No Right?Merdeka is just another reason for spendings.

It's all about tomorrow.

There's no biggy ! It's just a presentation.

The most terrifying moment has come,we'll have to dress up with formal wear for so-called "Forum" style presentation.
What we had done for the preparation?
Clothes and script should be well-prepared except my stupid hair,I'm not trying to be vain here but seriously my hair is sucks especially without my cap that I've used to wear on! Hell,I've planned to head to the salon for a "clean-up" but I think it's not a necessary since it's just a normal presentation.Argh,what am I suppose to do when I still can't overcome the greatest enemy in my mind?"The stage fright"

Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim won P44 !

Without any delay, Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim has won the parliament seat of Permatang Pauh !

The Full Results of (P44):

Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim (KeADILan): 31,195 Votes
Hanafi Mamat (AKIM): 92 Votes
Datuk Arif Shah Omar Shah (BN): 15,524 Votes

Total Votes: 47,258
Percentage of voters: 81 %
Voided: 447 Votes
Majority: 15,671 Votes

Ex-member of (P44): Datuk Seri Dr Wan Azizah Ismail (KeADILan)
Votes gained on 8 Mac 2008: 30,348
Majority: 13,398 Votes

Dewan Rakyat speaker Pandikar Amin Mulia announced this morning that the new MP ,Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim of Permatang Pauh will be sworn in tomorrow.
I can't wait to see what is he going to say in the parliament,Pakatan Rakyat,a combination of Parti keADILan Rakyat(People's justice party),PAS (Pan-Malaysian Islamic Party) and DAP(Democratic Action Party) has decided to place Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim as the Opposition Leader of Malaysia.I remember he ever said,he'll be sitting right infront of Pak Dollah ,right into his eyes and see how is he going to sleep .

Proudness

The main purpose for being proud is to seek attention and seek a better impression from the others ; actually, it's not.

The purpose for being a proud person.

Yes,everyone can be proud,but why?

If you're really feeling proud for yourself,then be it.Acting and telling what you have while you don't even have it,it's more than worst.Can you imagine if a person tells you about how great they are and what kind of achievement, they had achieved which is not true?What would be your reaction?In another way,if you think that what he said it's true, or you truly believe about it,then you might think that you've lost to him because he is greater and you might get jealous.If the wise thinks that it's not true which can be proven,then people might have a great laugh at your back.Consequently, what's the good purpose for being proud?

Being proud in the right way than being ashamed on your back.

I truly apologize on behalf of my poor English.

Something about and not about .

World has changed,as we can see,teenagers are no longer teenagers...

Majority teenagers have turned into trash,
Why am I saying this?

Because I've seen too much of it and there's no way to express it.

No,I mean why and how can you prove that?

Well,proving it is not compulsory, people can be what they wanted to be as they wish to.However, it seems like things has
gone above the par,teenagers,youngsters,scolding vulgar,being rude,being harsh and more that I can't even tell.
It's ashamed when we're talking about it,something is actually playing in their mind.What I can say is they are just trying to be
on trend.They feel to be one of them, it's because they eventually thought that it makes them feel like they had already grown up.
Nevertheless, unfortunately,yes they are what they think they are to those who thinks that it's right for being such a barbarian,young gangsters,
Street punk and so on.They don't have a life?They're going toward these and acting in that way will be just low- graded themselves.
People look down on the,disrespect them while they think that they are too proud to be so-called "Instant Adults". Talking about gangsters,if gangsters are great ,think again.If you think that they have a heart,then why are they hurting people,threatening people and taking themselves like the best among all?Try to think back again,there are always people "better" than you.If you injure a person today, a next person might come to you on the next day,if you killed someone,you'll spend the rest of your life in the cell.So why?Imagine a young and "innocent" person that ended up like that.How would their parents be felt?It happens everyday and it's getting worse.Male and female,they're trying to gain their rank so more people would be more afraid of them.

What if the others think differently?

Well,like people used to say,"We can do what we want and say what we want" .Consequently, I guess I'll say,"You can think what you want as long as it's logical".If they are willing to share theirs,it would be the best.

I apologize on behalf of my poor English,forgive me.

Just another day

Here we are all over again.

In the matter of relationship, there's no simple exist.
True love is. What could get through together regardless any matter
and true love is always hard to be maintained while there's esteem-needs exist.

Love is sweet and romance, but never abuse it.

A lonely,empty,miserable person particularly a single.
They would do whatever it takes to get what they want.
Actually, they're seeking for a cure,the cure can be is to get someone that they could really love.
Countless disasters could happen when they're truly seeking for the cure.
It could be a replacement,it could be a cure,it could be a desire,it could be....a disaster.

Love is?

This might sounds a little weird to all beloved friends.

Love is suppose to be something sweet and romantic..which is might turned up to be a disaster.

Love is something that you have to believe in,
My personal view:
If a girl believes in you,she'll let go everything just to believe you.No matter what you do,you just have to tell her..and it doesn't bother it's true or fake,she'll just nod at you and say yes without any question.
If a girl started to ask questions,she'll be real worried that his men might thought she has lost in faith and the girl doesn't want to end up a scratch in her relationship.

Girls are stupid ; guys are stupid
Neither did both.
Why said so?
Shall we start with guys or girls?I guess it have to be started with girls.
Types of relationship :
Distance Relationship.
Nowadays,extremely a lot of young female teenagers are having the same hobby such as playing computers,chatting online,hang out with friends,arcade and so on.Lets talk about how a distance relationship starts.
*I'm sorry that my english isn't that great,so I'll have to mix*

A normal girl which is love herself so so much,and take pictures of herself and post them in either facebook or friendster.These are like universal communications via the internet.
Some people might think that they're pretty or something or they need attention more than the others do?
So they decided to take pictures of themselves with different editing ways and post them up!So they could get attention.
There was a case about a girl who sent a guy her naked photo and ended up she got threaten and she have to pay that guy an amount of money or her naked picture will be exposed.How stupid huh?Can't she just respect herself?
Attention seekers:
Particularly what kind of attention they'll get from?Those horny guys or pervert guys or even better by a little we called them people that Lack Of Love.They'll be like .."WAH THIS GIRL IS PRETTY LEH!I WANT TO KAO HER"
Then they'll start with something like ..Hi lenglui,can I add you to my friendster?Can add me to your msn?
The girl will literately think "Wah..people call me lenglui leh,means I'm really not bad!" *Continue..posting her pictures..from hundred to hundreds!"More and more people added her in.So as a results,so do guys."It's the same !"..Some guys might really THINK that they're very good looking or stuff *I'm not jealous about anything here,I'm just telling the truth* even some of them ,which is they are totally different compared to reality..it's like ..they're CHEATERS!..You can't say it's a hobby while you enjoy taking pictures of yourself,but at least it's not the same POSE with SO MANY PICTURES!Are you MAD?.So girls might go and add them and they will just became friends or something which is might be able to brought it to reality.
A girl might say this to her friend "EH LAst night hor,i saw one lengchai hor from friendster de hor,he is very handsome lo! his name is bla bla hor then he stay where where de lo,EH he is very rich leh"
What is this suppose to be?"Hey?you haven't met this guy before and you know that much about him?Anything can just happen?Your first date might be something that you gonna regret for life!
Maybe after knowing this kind of person for a period of time..it's like er..they're chatting quite good ..and sms sometimes or maybe share their matters and HEY.People might ask you.WOI HE IS JUST YOUR ONLINE FRIEND LAH WHY YOU BOTHER SO MUCH? ...*WHAT ONLINE FRIEND?HE TALK ON THE PHONE WITH ME OK!! I KNOW HIM SO LONG LIAO!! AND I WANT TO MEET HIM,I TRUST HIM OK*
SO what is one year?You took one year to understand a person?Online?What is on phone and the internet?It's almost the same..it's just you can hear his voice or something.People are just so stupid ,I don't understand why.Are they lacking of something?Distance relationship?What kind of crap is this?If you can make it stable via online and convert it to reality,I'll just say NO,it's not going to happen.Theres no way to understand each other ONLINE or VIA PHONE!This isn't true love,this is cheating.

Girls are going to end up a great disaster if they're NAIVE!
Guys?Can I continue next time?I'm not writing a book.

*Personally I'm telling everyone here,I'm not writing this because of jealousy, it's because I've seen too much of these! If you think that I'm truly wrong,then I'll take it as you're one of that kind and you support cheaters!
Once again,I'm not jealous,I'm not pathetic,I'm not envy,I'm just proud of myself.
Criticise if you want ; No offence,but whenever you make a decision , please think.
Furtherrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr .

Love is sweet and romantic,don't spoil it.
Forgive me for my grammar errors and my lousy vocab

Originally written by
15/4/08 12:42 Sylvester

Emptiness to the worst.

Emptiness

Emptiness as a human condition is described as a feeling of numbness, inability to feel anything emotionally, or not having purpose. It can be better described as a situation where a certain lack or lacks in one's life overtake the emotional and mental focus in an obsessive, sometimes subconscious manner. Feelings of emptiness often accompany chronic discontent, dysthymia, ^[1] depression, loneliness, despair, or other mental/emotional disorders such as borderline personality disorder. It may seek expression through different types of self-harming behaviors, and in more extreme cases, suicide.

Emptiness often involves alienation, be it temporary or acquired, and sometimes self-hatred. Persons tending to feel emptiness often come from problematic familial backgrounds. If at all there was a family nucleus, their needs were ignored, they were considered second class, they experienced many separations, or there was outright abuse ^[2][3] (see also the role of childhood abuse in BPD individuals).

A sense of emptiness is not always associated as such, and may be part of a natural process of grief, as resulting of separation, death of a loved one, or other significant changes to one's life.

Taken from wikipedia .

Do girls really like dating jerks?

SHE SAYS: No, but we think we do. As someone who dated a jerk, whom I now refer to as my "learning experience," I admit to falling under the jerk spell.

Here's how the jerk spell works: we meet the jerk and in some twisted way are seduced by his confidence, charm, and passion. We don't see these as the disguises they are: confidence is really arrogance, charm comes from him being a player, and his passion is being the center of his own universe.

The jerk sniffs out our insecurities and uses them to reel us in with compliments that eventually turn into criticisms.

The jerk sniffs out our insecurities and uses them to reel us in with compliments that eventually turn into criticisms. And if we see a red flag, like the time my "learning experience" told me his definition of a relationship was "light, fun and physical," we play mind games with ourselves. We use our normally rational inner voice to convince ourselves that we can tame him or that with the right kind of girlfriend he will lose his jerk armor and transform into a leading man fit for a romantic comedy. Come on ladies, what are we thinking?!

A jerk loves being a jerk -- way more than he loves us. I guess if they've always gotten away with treating people poorly and nobody ever set them straight, why would they change? Besides, a jerk seems to always have an attractive woman on his arm laughing at his mediocre jokes and ignoring his wandering gaze. How? I think it's because deep down every woman wants a challenge or a little danger. It's not really the jerk we like; it's the thrill of the chase, the rush of adrenaline when the jerk's phone number pops up on our cell (which is usually right after last call).

However, it's been my experience that "jerkdom" isn't some phase we can pull a guy out of. Guys only outgrow that phase when life no longer succumbs to their demands. Any woman who has dated a jerk for more than a week knows that it's a hollow relationship that ultimately leaves you disappointed, hurt, and commiserating with your friends.

The only challenge worth overcoming when dating a jerk is to not let him affect or define your self worth. So if there is a jerk out there making your heart go pitter-pat and estrogen is messing with your reasoning, go ahead and let him woo you, but when he asks for your number tell him that you only date guys who prove their value by respecting a woman. If he's a jerk he'll roll his eyes, say you have an attitude and snicker as he leaves. If he sincerely accepts your ground rules, then chances are you should give him at least one date to prove he's relationship material. Although you may not be spellbound at first, the nice guy without all the smooth answers may ultimately fulfill your needs in more meaningful ways.

HE SAYS: As much as I hate to say it, girls love jerks! At least until the jerk stops calling, which is usually right after he gets what he wants. Speaking from the guy's perspective, I've never quite understood what draws sane, attractive, bright women to guys who act like jerks. Maybe it is the thrill of the unexpected. Maybe it is trying to outplay him in his own game. Maybe it is hoping that deep down he is a nice guy and you are going to prove it to your naysayer friends. What I do know is that too many women who could easily be in a healthy relationship instead choose the cliffhanger ending of dating a jerk that walks with a swagger, winks at anything that moves, and always has a one-liner at the ready.

Truth be told, there aren't many nice guys who haven't considered acting like a jerk, especially when they steal your girl

Truth be told, there aren't many nice guys who haven't considered acting like a jerk, especially when they steal your girl (here I speak from experience). However, daydreaming of jerkdom fades as soon as nice guys remember one thing: being a jerk means acting like a jerk all the time. That means causing the mental pain and emotional anguish that drives a girl to phone her friends -- guy friends included -- crying about what the jerk did to her in public on their first date. Even guys bear the brunt of girls who fall head over heels for jerks.

If you're a girl who feels worse about yourself with every jerk you date, I hope you will make a big move towards respecting yourself and go on a date with a nice guy. They may not offer the drama and constant criticism you've come to expect, but they also won't try to hook up with you after dropping off their other girlfriend. And if you are having trouble distinguishing between a jerk and a nice guy, here are three ways to tell:

1. He's probably a jerk if he tells you to skip desert because your butt already jiggles enough.
2. He's definitely a jerk if he "guilts" you into doing things that make you feel bad about yourself -- usually starting with the line "If you really cared about me..."
3. He's absolutely a jerk if he takes you on a date and leaves you the bill, while he leaves with the waitress.

Only Once.

Being,only once,
Ruination might causes the greatest impact,
Once you've moved to the wrong way,there's no turning back,
Drugs and tobaccos;Addictive and causes queasy.

Love,to the eternity,
Sweet in the beginning on a sour grape tree,
Death and alive,sweet and sour ;
Future is the brightest path,
Shade and lamp-post,love can-be.